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Confession: I have a friend who likes to text me at like 4am when he’s had nightmares or he can’t sleep or he just needs a friend. He thinks I’m always awake at 4am but really I go to bed around 12am and I change his text-tone to the loudest one I have just so it wakes me up when he needs me.
you’re the kind of friend everyone needs
I think that since its been a year since I made this post its time for an update. In the past year I’ve watched this post grow and grow, people I work with have told me about it as “this post I saw the other day” and they have no idea it’s my post. The person I wrote this about has even reblogged it. He is no longer texting me at 4am. Not because we no longer speak but because the nightmares have stopped. He and I both are in a much better place. Most often the only times he’s waking me up at 4am is when he’s pulling me closer to him while we sleep. He’s more than a friend now and I’m forever thankful to have him. Everyone messaged me saying he was lucky to have me but I think I was just as lucky to have him and I would do it all over.
"Either I love you, have visions of growing with you and want you all to myself, or I don’t give a shit and you only receive basic communication from me in a means of being polite and we become associates. If I fall for you, please don’t make me regret doing so, because there’s an extremely thin line and it’s not easily rectifiable. Plus, the effect I leave, fr fr, it’s inevitable that you’ll fall in love and it’ll be way too late."
"I used to think I was tough, but then I realized I wasn’t. I was fragile and I wore thick f*cking armor. And I hurt people so they couldn’t hurt me. And I thought that was what being tough was, but it isn’t."
I really like that Cobie said this line about Barney and Robin’s relationship she said “their relationship is always growing and changing and it evolves” I think she’s right about this. This is the only relationship that had evolved and changed over the years. They had so many real moments on the show. They went from friends to lovers to falling more and more in love and the thing I love about this relationship is the fact that it did change, no they didn’t change who they were as people to be together. They changed because they wanted to and it helped them by the end of the series to understand themselves a little more with what they wanted in life.
B/R had a complicated but an ever growing and changing relationship which other couples didn’t have on the show. These two were the most developed as individuals and then as a couple they learned from just being apart of each other’s lives. This relationship is very important to the show and their characters developments. You shouldn’t take this relationship lightly, it shouldn’t be messed with or thought of as some unrealistic relationship. It shouldn’t be talked about as if it didn’t exist or didn’t happen and it shouldn’t be less important then all the other relationships on the show.
Barney and Robin had really messed up childhoods and then adulthood screwed them up even more and the reason their character development is important to not only the series but to them and their relationship is because they always never changed who they were or what they wanted in life. Neither would change each other either, they liked each other for her they were and never once judged each other because they understood each other better than anyone else ever hoped to believe they would understand. They are the only ones who truly understood the other one and because they had such a strong and changing relationship it truly did change but they never changed who they were and they still ended up being soulmates. That’s the most strong connection any two people would ever have even if you aren’t connected with a kid or anything they are still connected not just because they’re friends but because they’re truly soulmates who have a strong bond from start to finish.
Robin married Barney, she didn’t marry Ted or anyone else she married and made promises to Barney because that’s who she wanted to be with. Robin never changed throughout the show because she didn’t have to. Barney did change but didn’t change who he was to be with Robin he just grew and understood, they both understood love better by the end of show and that never ends. That love doesn’t end, it doesn’t go away, it doesn’t die, it doesn’t stop because that’s who they love.
It’s the same way with Ted/Tracy but I won’t talk about that because it isn’t important for this post so I will just leave it at that.
But, one more thing and that is Barney & Robin a soulmates, it’s a true love so they would always find their way back to each other even if it takes them years or decades to, they always do and it will happen again because that’s who they love and will always love no matter what happens in their lives.
